I am just back from a long weekend with Paul Young in
Toronto. I can’t begin to report
on all the different venues and wonderful conversations, but I can say that in
each and every situation we had a large
time. What struck me most was the
hunger and openness of people from all ages and from a wide range of ethnic and
cultural backgrounds. Things have
dramatically changed in the last twenty years, and the fundamental change has
been in openness to discuss and to wrestle with the reality and the meaning of
the Trinity. The Holy Spirit has
been leading people around the world to the awareness of the fact that we are
all deeply, personally, and profoundly connected. We simply have not had a vision of Jesus, and certainly not
of his Father and of the Holy Spirit, to help us understand or to process this
connectedness.
I have no interest in lapsing into the old 19th
century liberalism, which posited the Fatherhood of God and the brotherhood of
man, without any reference to Jesus Christ at all, as our point of unity. As you know, I believe that Jesus has
gathered the entire human race together in himself, taken us down in death,
given us life in his resurrection, and lifted us up into the life of the
blessed Trinity in his ascension.
The basis of our unity as people, as nations, and, dare I say, as denominations is Jesus himself. In
Jesus, because of his identity and humble incarnation, and because of his submission to us in
our darkness, we can say and shout that the human race is bound together
forever.
Along with the book signing events, conferences and conversations,
Paul and I both had the opportunity to be interviewed by 100 Huntly Street and by
Crossroads 360. The entire morning
was fascinating as the 100 Huntly Street folks are serious, devout believers. We wrestled together, on and off
camera. Everyone loved every
minute of the discussion. And that
was just it; the freedom to be myself, to say what I honestly believe, and the
heart to be heard, even if rebutted, was wonderfully striking. I will not speak for 100 Huntly Street
and say that they all agree with me, or with Paul, but I will say that we were
given a real hearing, a listening, a careful hearing. And I walked away thinking ‘what would it be like if we
could actually listen to one another as believers?’
Of course my mind kicked into overdrive as to why we don’t
listen, really listen to one another.
And that is the question.
Don’t hide behind the ‘we.’
Let’s cut to the chase. Ask
it out loud. Why do I not listen?
I have only been married for 30 years, so I am a long way
from being an expert on relationships and marriage, but I would say that my own
consistent, blundering mistake is, and has been, that I have not listened to my
wife—really, actually, personally listened. I may not like it, but the question staring me in the face
is simple, ‘why not?’ That is a
good question, a good question for life, for relationships. 'Wh do I not listen?' Listening assumes that you don’t know—but
want to.